The one thing that is controlling your life, and how to change it

I want to talk about something crucial that most people forget: your paradigm. This inner program defines your beliefs, thoughts, feelings, emotions, actions — your whole life.

How Beliefs Are Formed

When born, your subconscious mind was open to receive whatever was there: parental energy, words, feelings, emotions, environment. All ideas and opinions deep within are programmed by your surroundings.

Why are you sure of certain things without logical reason? Because it's in you, programmed.

Why do some people stay stuck, knowing what would improve them but unable to move forward? Because they're blocked by internal beliefs — often without realizing it.

The Example

Consider someone who:

• -Works a tiring 50-hour week at a job they hate
• -Is depressed and wants to start their own company
• -Is passionate about a new path
• -Knows exactly what they should do
• -Still doesn't do it — paralyzed, even though they know it would make them happy

Why? An inner program is blocking them:

• -"Working hard like a dog is the only way to succeed" (no room for joy/prosperity/fulfillment)
• -"Life is about working hard for others more successful" (only others can have great abundant lives)
• -Parents were both hard-working employees (only environment ever known)

These beliefs are ingrained in the subconscious mind, forbidding change.

The person can be smart, intelligent, loving, inspiring — but without believing in themselves and another way of living, they just don't change.

How to Change Your Paradigm

Your paradigm was programmed through repetition. You were told and told the same things all your life. You can reprogram it the same way: through repetition.

Powerful Mantras

Repeat these to yourself constantly (morning, before sleep, while walking):

For overall positive shift: "I am happy and grateful now that Love, Money, Health and Happiness come to me in increasing quantities, from multiple sources, on a continuous basis."

For specific needs:

• -"I am happy and grateful that today I am building my own business"
• -"I am perfect the way I am and everyone loves me"
• -"Who I am is good enough"
• -"Life is unfolding as it should"
• -"I know I am becoming the best person I can be"
• -"I accept and value myself exactly as I am"
• -"I deserve the best that life has to offer. My needs are always met"
• -"I am taking responsibility of my life. I can cope with any situation"

Power Technique

Record yourself repeating your chosen mantra for 10 minutes and listen to the audio repeatedly, over and over. After a few weeks, transformation happens.

When you feel lacking self-confidence, motivation, power, or belief in yourself — repeat your mantra. Miracles happen.

With Love,

Stephanie