Your vibe attracts your tribe

Have you ever wondered how your entourage and relationships change as you evolve yourself?

Have you ever wondered how some people always stay around you, no matter what? Or how you suddenly met people who literally changed your life, just when you needed it?

It is all about the energy you are emitting. Everything is about energy and vibrations. You attract people — and things — that respond to your level of vibration. So it makes sense that some people are present in our lives for a period of time and then slowly disappear. This is just how life works. And we shouldn't be sad about it. If it happens, it is often to create space for new people who are more aligned with who we are becoming.

The People Around You Shape You

During my coaching sessions, I often see a common pattern: people lose their energy or can't function at their best because of detrimental people around them. Whether family, friends or colleagues, the people who surround you have a direct impact on your own energy and vibration level.

Have you ever felt suddenly excited, awakened, motivated and enthusiastic just because you were in a group of people who radiated that energy? Humans are made to thrive together. The gathering of high-energy, positive people can make wonders and trigger life transformations that some people wouldn't even expect.

Surround yourself with heroes and you become a hero.

Your friends — the people you spend the most time with — reflect your current vibration state, and at the same time heavily influence your own energy level.

It's OK to Take Distance

Be aware of those who don't make you feel good. Some people, sometimes even your closest friends, are not making you any good at a certain period of your life. And that is ok. It is ok to realize it and to take some distance or see them less often. It is ok to take care of what is best for yourself. Does it mean you don't love them anymore? Of course not. True love — whether romantic, family or friendship — is unconditional. It just means sometimes you have to do what is good for you.

As you grow and evolve, you may feel you are changing and no longer as aligned with your usual entourage. That is also ok. As you change, you attract new people who can support you on your new path.

Your Tribe Reflects Who You Are

Your tribe is basically who you are, deep inside. I see many people surrounding themselves with very negative or undesirable people — and they know it, yet they keep those people around. There are deep reasons for this: either they feel they aren't worth anything better, or it makes them feel better to be with people in a "worse situation." The ego and subconscious play a big role here.

Connect to your heart. Ask yourself honestly: Does it feel right? Am I growing with these people? Are they making me better? You already know the answer. Your heart has been telling you. All you have to do is listen — and be true to it.

My Own Experience

As I changed my life — from investment banking to holistic health coaching — I realized all of this firsthand. Some people were genuinely happy for my happiness. Others couldn't follow me in my evolution and always found something negative to say. And some were simply not interested.

My environment changed slowly, without me making it happen on purpose. New people appeared who made me feel confident and became true guides on my new journey. Some older friends stayed close, always supportive. Others naturally became more distant.

Did it make me sad? Not really. Each person I met came for a good reason. And the new people I found during my holistic journey helped raise my own vibration level by helping me feel more connected to my true self.

Let Your Heart Shine

Don't be afraid to lose people as you change. The ones who love you unconditionally will always stay. Many people fear change in others — but that only reflects their own insecurities, not your worth.

Allow yourself to expand, grow and become more. By accepting who you truly are and allowing your potential to fully express itself, you will naturally attract the right people to you.

Let your heart emit its own vibrations, and magic will happen.

In Love and Happiness,

Stephanie